is one of the most important parts of a relationship-without it, it's difficult for things to actually work. But that doesn't make building complete trust in a person easy. It's even harder when you have been hurt or betrayed in the past.
Putting your trust in someone is like making yourself vulnerable, and a lot of people have trouble with that. Which i am one of though. But when you meet someone who really loves you and you like, you may want to trust him but there is always this nagging voice asking if it's really a good idea. Not you worry here are some reasons why you can trust your partner. 1. His Phone And Computer Is Always Left Unlocked
If your boyfriend doesn't feel the need to lock his phone or computer while around, chances are good that he trust you and he can be trusted. This isn't an invitation to snoop through their privacy, however, getting busted in the act can quickly make you seem like the untrustworthy one. Likewise, a password protected phone or laptop doesn't mean doom. He might be too concerned about privacy but if ever throw a full scale fit if you even take a glance at their phone or laptop, take the red flag for it. 2. Your Boyfriend's Friends Are Good People
If your boyfriend carries you along fully in his life, you'll be meeting his family and friends. Friends are pretty good metrics that you can use to determine what kind of behavior you'll see in your boyfriend. If he is okay hanging out with people who are abusive to their girlfriends, those who see nothing wrong in cheating on their partners, then there might be an issue. This red flag is compounded if, in a conversation they find ways to justify there pals wrong doings. On the other hand, reliable friends with productive lives are usually a good sign. 3. He Owns Up To Mistakes
Even the most delightful or significant others is bound to make a mistake or two. Whether he accidentally fed your pet the wrong food, lit a potholder on fire or forgot to pay some bills, a trustworthy boyfriend cops to their errors so you can work together to fix them. Not lying also means he trusts you to be understanding about the inevitable gaffes of everyday life. 4. He Never Try To Make You Look Stupid
If he is quick to turn on you in conversation to get a laugh of group of friends, he is being rude and untrustworthy. Bringing up personal and private mistakes, secrets or quirks that he knows will humiliate you isn't funny, least of all to you, the person being attacked. That's an abusive behavior and that indicates that he shouldn't be trusted to be your boyfriend. 5. He Considers You When Making Big Choices
When faced with a life altering choice, one of the first thoughts that come to many peoples mind is how their choices affect their loved ones. If your boyfriend is faced with a big choice and one of his first step is to consider or consult you, you can be fairly certain that he cares about you and is being open with you about his life and future. These is a great sighn of trustworthiness in him. 6. He Is Civil With His Exes
Nobody is saying your boyfriend has to be BFF with the people he dated in the past, but if his history is filled with a litany of "psycho" exes who were supposedly responsible for every problem in their relationship, be on alert. It's true that most of us have a couple of people in our past that we'd rather forget, but if every single person your boyfriend has dated avoid him like wildfire-or vice versa-there might be an issue. On the flip side, having civil friendships with exes and copping to their role in issues is a great sign. While it is healthy and normal to trash talk an ex after breakup, doing so years after the fact isn't a great sign.