Ladies: 5 things every virgin should know that No one will ever tell you!
Things every virgin should know: The other day we were informed about a young man who didn’t lose his virginity until he was in his 20s and created a website on which he writes really obvious but also valuable relationship and s*x advice for guys who are inexperienced with women. I even learned something from his post about basic stuff no one ever told him about s*x! (“If the girl gets too wet during s*x it can reduce the friction to the point where you don’t really feel anything.” I had no idea!)1. Tampons Will Fit Better After
No joke. They really will. I was never able to get tampons up there before I lost my virginity, probably because I was too tense whenever I tried. But the weekend after I did it for the first time (and the second, and third, and fourth, and so on), I decided to try to insert a slender/regular, even though I didn’t have my period. Not nearly as much resistance and I was able to get the entire thing up there. So there you go! Now, if you ever get around to it, you won’t be so lost when you actually try to F-word. Just remember to be safe and wear a condom. (Even though, yeah, it feels better without it.)2. Queefing
We’ve been over this. But in addition to what was already discussed, I’d like to add that you probably won’t need to worry about queefing the first time, because most likely, you’re so new down there that you’re pretty much airtight.
Queefs: What’s The Etiquette For Dealing With Air Up There? Of all the embarrassing stuff that can happen during s*x — urine leaks, unwelcome fingers in…3. Lube, Lube, Lube
This is seriously the most important thing for D in the V. (Or B…but no butts yet, I said!) Ideally, you want to be so turned on that your vadge is naturally wet, but that might not happen the first few times, for whatever reason (nervousness, fear, etc.) So just make sure you have a bunch of lube on hand. However, if you got a lot of bottled lube down there, you shouldn’t attempt doggy style, because all that stuff will get in your pee hole and it will give you the mother of all UTIs.4. It Feels Better Without a Condom
You know, people really get on their high horse when it comes to using condoms. Here’s the thing: You know those PSAs or HBO Families in Crisis movies about the importance of safe s*x? And there’s always a guy who’s like slimy and tries to sweet-talk his girlfriend into having s*x without a condom because “it feels better.” Well, he’s right. It totally does feel better. I know, know! Condoms are important for many reasons and you should wear them. But for me, it feels way more natural without one and I’m much less likely to get a UTI. And if he re-ups and is able to F-word you again, and you guys go through with foreplay again, it doesn’t taste as gross when you go down on him.5. Location, Location, Location
Your woman-hood is prime real estate. If your body were a Monopoly board, your clit and vadge would be Boardwalk. A lot of guys don’t know what the underworld they’re doing, and sometimes they just poke their joy-stick around blindly. Make sure you guide them to the front hole, ’cause If he accidentally jams it in your butt or your taint, and you’re not ready for it, you’re not gonna like the way it feels. Trust! Which brings me to number four…