Whenever you're in a relationship, there will always be that slight fear you may be in one with a chronic cheater. Though there may not be one definite way to check if your partner is cheating, you can still keep your eyes open for some of these telltale signs. If you have a nagging thought that constantly leaves you wondering if you're being cheated on, use these 5 surefire ways to find out the truth.You've caught your partner in seemingly unnecessary lie
You ask your partner where he or she has been all day and the response- in the office. But then you go online and see a tagged photo of your partner at a bar someplace. Now even if you are pretty permissive and you are okay with letting your partner have a few drinks before heading home, you'd wonder why the lye. The reason behind this may be that your partner doesn't want you to know exactly where they've been, lest you suddenly show up while the "third party" is there(oppps! busted
). Basically, any suspicious little lies should be enough to get those alarm bells ringing.Your partner spends more
Keeping two relationships running at once can be expensive, especially if either you or the third party has expensive tastes. You may be wondering why your partner seems to save less or seems to be worried about money. It might be that in other to convince the "third party" to keep a relationship with someone engaged(your partner), your partner has decided to use expensive dates and gifts. So if by some chance you stumble over some receipts of an expensive hotel scheduled for a night when you thought your partner was doing overtime at work, it may be time for a confrontation.Your partner's friends cheat
An African adage says and I quote "A sheep that walks constantly with a dog will someday feed on (((Word Blocked)))." if your partner always hangs out with a person who's a cheater, there's a very high probability that he or she will pick up the behavior or will I say give it a try
. For one thing, constant exposure to something, no matter how bad it may be, can make them think that it's okay. For one a cheating buddy can teach your partner the tricks of the business. Though you cant force your partner from having contact with his or her close friend, you can express your feelings about not wanting your partner to be in the company of cheaters. Your partner is suddenly secretive with gadgets or gets nervous when someone calls or texts
Back then you were able to grab your partners phone and play games whenever you want to. But now, its either with a password or never accessible.
One tip for women; most guys aint really into texting each other. they can make plans sharp sharp
. But if you notice that you guy is always texting his friend lets say "Frank" and "Frank" in return replies with girly emoticons when texting your guy. This may be enough prove that "Frank" isn't actually a guy
For guys; true sweet messages maybe common for ladies. But you have every right to be suspicious if your girlfriend's friend is always asking for a meet up without any proof such a tagged picture or a status update.
Okay this time there might be no "Frank" whatsoever but whenever your partners phone rings, he suddenly jilters. The reason why people have phones is so as to communicate with people, so why the sudden jilter? If its your partners boss, mum or friend is calling there should be no need to be afraid of picking the call or hide to do so. So if your partner goes to pains to keep the identity of the caller from you, that means something is up.Your partner cheated with you
There is an adage that says, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." This can sometimes be true. If you were once the "third party" and your partner was able to carry on a relationship with you despite already being with someone else. Then, there will always be that nagging feeling that your partner did with you can be done to you too.
My advice, try your best not to get involved with someone who is already in a relationship, no mater how optimistic you might be that he or she wouldn't do the same to you. If he can successfully cheat with you then he should be able to cheat on you its a simple fact a hard pill to swallow.